Sunday, September 2, 2012

Pride And Prejudice: A Marriage?

Sometimes life is unjustly bias. We let our own emotions get rule over us. We hastily judge others because of certain auras that we perceived about them. We don't allow them to enter into our own realm and stiffle our own stability. We need to be on the rein and we don't get budge with other's presence.

People will hurt people with their misunderstandings and their hasty judgments and their callous assessments and thoughtlessly spoken words. Their good intentions sometimes crumble into ill-advised decisions rendering them to be gloated with their own pride. Their unripe opportunities sometimes implode under their uncommunicated resentments.

Sometimes everything is so close to going wonderfully amiss. And we don't know what is coming ahead. We just wanted to be the authority. We never realized that we already hurt someone's feelings. We are just concerned of our own selfishness and we don't intend to be giving and forgiving.

People just wanted to boast. They don't know that they had stepped someone else's pride. No consideration nor any contempt of what they have done. As long as they can situate themselves at the zenith, even though someone will get hurt, they will do it. People are sometimes gullible. No mercy at all, especially when power is the price.

Humans are naturally attention hungry. We never seek our own prejudices and vulnerabilities at first..... but when we do, we will eventually realized that we made a terrible mistake, then remorse will ensue and we will make ammends of our own unintentional as well as intentional actions... of what we've callously done, then we will seek our balance and examine our own impurities to bounce back from where we left off.

And sometimes, when a person will chose vulnerability over pride, transparency over prejudice, when a person will seek others above themselves, when a person will examine themselves with humility, when a person will swallow the consequences of their judgements that they have shrewdly concocted . . . life will completely be changed.

Then, sometimes, people will end up completely and perfectly and incandescently happy. Life is full of mysteries.... and we don't know what will be coming.

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