Well, they say that love is universal but one thing for sure that we must remember we must always leave something for ourselves when it comes to love. We couldn't show our love unless we start it on ourselves. We must love ourselves first before loving somebody.
There are many forms of love but the most that really affects us emotionally is the love we gave to our love ones and special someone be it familial or romantic. Love is always hard to fathom.
Familial love is the first one we always learn. The love of a mother and father, siblings, and relatives was the first one we always experienced. Then as we grow older we experienced love to a greater heights, a love with our opposite sex and get romantically involved with them. It always feels good to be in love.
A romantic love is really a complicated kind of love. There are a lot of facades and faces about this kind of love. It is not my forte and I am not really an expert with this kind of love but I have some valid observations, close encounters, and mutual experiences from close friends and people around me that gave me a vivid idea about this aspect of love.
Sometimes we got too engrossed with a romantic love. We tend to get drown with it and have forgotten to leave some little respect for ourselves. We tend to forget about the very important people in our lives and come to a point not heeding their concerns and advises because we are overly involved with it then it will be too late for us to go back when we realized that we were wrong about our own immature decisions.
We tend to rebel to all the people around us when we a romantically involved with somebody. We tend to get high and imbibe well of the emotional feelings that a romantic love can offer us and all of a sudden we then realized that we dropped ourselves suddenly from the zenith we were at during that turbulent emotional experience.
All I can say, in order to get back to where we are we should leave something meaningful for ourselves. We shouldn't give every thing in all out way a hundred percent when were on a roller-coaster ride with a romantic love. In that, if ever we fell down many times we still stay grounded in the end.
Some says they feel crazy when they were in love. Yes.... being a fool is a normal feeling. Every body had experienced it but as a simple reminder we should always be mature enough with our decisions rather than being impulsive with it.
At least we know where we're at and know how to trouble shoot ourselves just in case we were emotionally hurt. Yes.... it hurts to get heartbroken yet at least we know that we can bounce back eventually if we are prepared for the consequences of our impulsive decisions and actions. We all make mistakes.
So next time, if you got involved romantically please leave a little bit of respect for yourself and always stay grounded. Don't over do it for the sake of love. Always leave something for yourself and know where to bounce back. Be smart enough and always think of the consequences of your actions in that every thing would be easy for you to go back where you started in the end.
Always make prudent decisions and give time for yourself to think over your decisions a million times. It takes a lot of guts to get involve romantically. They say love can move mountains. Despise not all but love yet nobody prevents you from expressing those internal feelings called romantic love.
So whatever decisions you make later on always be sure to make your decisions wisely, stay grounded and humble, be mature with every thing you do, and leave a little respect for yourself. Keep your faith that every thing is possible. In that life would be fulfilling and your experiences in love will blossom happily till the end of time.
Feel good, love good, and decide good about your love experiences. Take care of your self and good luck in your search for a true love. My prayers to you and your love ones as well as your special someone. Feel loved to a maximum, leave something for your self, and always look back where you came from.
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