Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Thinking Before Acting

It is a mature thing to think first before acting certain things to be done in order to save time and energy rather than wasting everything and redoing something from square. It is more prudent to do such thing rather than doing things over and over again.

Although things happened at a spur of a moment sometimes it couldn't be denied that we forget to act prudently. And these things are sometimes inevitable but still we have to think wisely first before acting impulsively. And we have to do this all the time in our everyday lives. Eventhough how busy life is we should always be accountable and responsible for the decisions that we make.

I myself have some doses of not thinking first before acting a certain task, endeavor, adventure, or chance. That's why it puts me into unwanted trouble most of the time. And through this I usually learned from these mistakes and everything is too late to regret yet the impact of the damage is always there to reckon with and you will swear not to repeat such thing again.

Sometimes the damage is irreparable and things couldn't be patched back again as before. If you could only turn back the time and not commit such mistakes again and then suddenly you found out that everything will be too late now. It's not just like eating a steaming food and when it burned your tongue you'll spit it out like nothing. Things aren't not suppose to be like that.

That's why we have the brain to decide first whether our actions will cause us harm or not then if not the brain will send signals to our senses that it's okay to do it because there is no threat. And we should always follow this all the time. Unless, you are just dumb per se and couldn't understand what you are doing. 

Some people says that the heart couldn't be taught by anybody. And somebody can forsake everything when it comes to what you feel about your heart. For me that's balloney! Honestly, the heart doesn't have a mind of it's own. That's why the brain was being placed on top of your head to govern your feelings and control your actions and emotions.

So whenever you do something that your heart feels you always have to consult your brain first. Always think first before you act to avoid harming yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and physiologically. Or else you'll be the one to suffer the consequences of your actions. Remember the end does not justify the means. So you always have to be responsible for what you have been decided and not to blame others in the end.

On this month of February, we celebrate Valentine's Day. It is the day of the heart but along with it we should involve our brain as well. Because without the brain the heart couldn't function. Love yourself..... think responsibly and act prudently.

I always say it here all the time that life is so short so always think that whatever we have decided is always for our own good and for our life's success. Live happily by acting wisely. We can only achieve this through  thinking wisely prior to acting impulsively. Good luck ..... and may you have a satisfying February month as we celebrate the coming Valentine's Day.

Always live life to the fullest by thinking and acting wisely. Life has a lot to offer for us and we should enjoy everything it entails by prudently making the right decisions and double checking everything you've decided whether it can benefit or harm you.

Take care guys and keep thriving wisely. My best wishes for your luck on Valentine's Day. Ciao!

1 comment:

  1. i like your post, this is a good piece of advice.

    sometimes though, i find that over-thinking prevents me from acting naturally. i remember when i was still bad at swimming, having to think about coordinating all my movements, thinking about when and how to breathe. good swimming happens when i trust that what i do, although not perfect in each instance, is in harmony as a whole. when i forget how long the pool is, i find i arrive at the wall sooner than i expected.

    there's a difference between being impulsive and trusting your wisdom and experience. hopefully, we learn from everything we do, successes and failures.

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